They say when you date someone for a year and more without any sign of commitment, then it's a waste of time. Yes, that is true but on the other hand, it could also mean both or one of them isn't ready to commit. Maybe, they have goals and a specific purpose in their life they need to achieve first before commitment. It now depends on whether you choose to stay in the relationship or butt out so you don't end up alone and old at the end. How your life would turn out depends on you. In some cases, you may end up together if it's meant to be but sincerely, I would not advice you to remain in a relationship that is heading no where like a packed vehicle. If he/she wants you to be a part of their life, they wouldn't take too long before proposal. That's why its always advisable to ask questions and be sure of what you getting yourself into in every relationship. Any one who is meant for you will marry you when the time comes no matter the obstacles or challenge