They say when you date someone for a year and more without any sign of commitment, then it's a waste of time. Yes, that is true but on the other hand, it could also mean both or one of them isn't ready to commit. Maybe, they have goals and a specific purpose in their life they need to achieve first before commitment. It now depends on whether you choose to stay in the relationship or butt out so you don't end up alone and old at the end. How your life would turn out depends on you. In some cases, you may end up together if it's meant to be but sincerely, I would not advice you to remain in a relationship that is heading no where like a packed vehicle. If he/she wants you to be a part of their life, they wouldn't take too long before proposal. That's why its always advisable to ask questions and be sure of what you getting yourself into in every relationship.
Any one who is meant for you will marry you when the time comes no matter the obstacles or challenges. Don't pester your partner or force them to make a commitment, It doesn't work that way.
Ultimatum in a relationship is never a good option for it would cause disarray leading to dissension which would end up a disaster and no one wants that. By pestering them, you make yourself look desperate and thus, another reason they wouldn't commit. Who wants a nagging partner?
It is important to know where you stand in any relationship and where its headed. You need to also be matured enough both mentally and financially before marriage. If they are serious about you, they would carry you along in anything that concerns them.
Never threaten your partner with a breakup if you don't mean it and if you are not sure of breaking it off. It could backfire at you and you end up loosing.
Before you break up with someone, be patient and think it through. State the reasons why and wait at least a week before taking actions depending on how solid the reasons are. If after a week, you still want to, then go ahead. If otherwise, try to work things out. Let the good times outweigh the bad. At least, try to work things out rather than giving up.
Take chances and give chances. No one knows who they would end up with. Even the best of couples break up.
If you are in a relationship, you are meant to be happy in it. Some people are better and happier when they are single. If you are not in peace or not happy with whomever you are dating, then run from it. Don't manage!
Everyone deserves a happy and healthy relationship. Anything that steals your joy isn't worth it.
Hey guys, don't make her wait and then you dump her. Its wicked!
Tell her the truth about your future and plans, if she's a part of it or not.
Ladies, you need to zip up. How many more would you go to bed with before your MR RIGHT arrives and trust me that MR RIGHT could end up being MR WORSE. If he loves you and cares about you, he would not frown or go ballistic when you refuse him sex. If a man is angry at you because you refuse to satisfy him, he doesn't love you or deserve you.
Guys tend to get angry when you refuse them sex. If you as a woman don't want to give him sex, then don't tempt him by walking around his apartment half naked, wearing his boxers or t-shirt or even sleeping over at his apartment isn't a good idea. When ever you do these things, you are inviting him to touch you or worse. When that happens, don't blame him for he is human.
There are some people you need to be patient with. They are the quiet ones who talk less and act shy in public but their actions speak. There are also some who talk a lot but show little or no action. Some people like quietness and some, noise. You need to understand who you are in a relationship with. Understanding brings about peace and peace leads to genuine happiness.
Relationships shouldn't be based on sex, marriage or an escape from being single. You can help each other grow, learn a lot about life from each other, support each other, give advice, get advice that could be life transforming. As a woman, you are his backbone, as a man you become her head.
We women often times, think our beauty can keep a man but that's so not true. Without brain, dignity, respect, honor, dreams or plans, will leave you single and miserable. He would rather opt for the woman with brain and goals.
BE BEAUTIFUL! BE KIND! BE PURPOSE DRIVEN!
Any one who is meant for you will marry you when the time comes no matter the obstacles or challenges. Don't pester your partner or force them to make a commitment, It doesn't work that way.
Ultimatum in a relationship is never a good option for it would cause disarray leading to dissension which would end up a disaster and no one wants that. By pestering them, you make yourself look desperate and thus, another reason they wouldn't commit. Who wants a nagging partner?
It is important to know where you stand in any relationship and where its headed. You need to also be matured enough both mentally and financially before marriage. If they are serious about you, they would carry you along in anything that concerns them.
Never threaten your partner with a breakup if you don't mean it and if you are not sure of breaking it off. It could backfire at you and you end up loosing.
Before you break up with someone, be patient and think it through. State the reasons why and wait at least a week before taking actions depending on how solid the reasons are. If after a week, you still want to, then go ahead. If otherwise, try to work things out. Let the good times outweigh the bad. At least, try to work things out rather than giving up.
Take chances and give chances. No one knows who they would end up with. Even the best of couples break up.
If you are in a relationship, you are meant to be happy in it. Some people are better and happier when they are single. If you are not in peace or not happy with whomever you are dating, then run from it. Don't manage!
Everyone deserves a happy and healthy relationship. Anything that steals your joy isn't worth it.
Hey guys, don't make her wait and then you dump her. Its wicked!
Tell her the truth about your future and plans, if she's a part of it or not.
Ladies, you need to zip up. How many more would you go to bed with before your MR RIGHT arrives and trust me that MR RIGHT could end up being MR WORSE. If he loves you and cares about you, he would not frown or go ballistic when you refuse him sex. If a man is angry at you because you refuse to satisfy him, he doesn't love you or deserve you.
Guys tend to get angry when you refuse them sex. If you as a woman don't want to give him sex, then don't tempt him by walking around his apartment half naked, wearing his boxers or t-shirt or even sleeping over at his apartment isn't a good idea. When ever you do these things, you are inviting him to touch you or worse. When that happens, don't blame him for he is human.
There are some people you need to be patient with. They are the quiet ones who talk less and act shy in public but their actions speak. There are also some who talk a lot but show little or no action. Some people like quietness and some, noise. You need to understand who you are in a relationship with. Understanding brings about peace and peace leads to genuine happiness.
Relationships shouldn't be based on sex, marriage or an escape from being single. You can help each other grow, learn a lot about life from each other, support each other, give advice, get advice that could be life transforming. As a woman, you are his backbone, as a man you become her head.
We women often times, think our beauty can keep a man but that's so not true. Without brain, dignity, respect, honor, dreams or plans, will leave you single and miserable. He would rather opt for the woman with brain and goals.
BE BEAUTIFUL! BE KIND! BE PURPOSE DRIVEN!
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