Men need to stop acting like they know so much about women/ladies meanwhile they have no idea of the most basic facts. I have become obsessed with identifying the things that make us different as a man or woman so I decided to write them down.
God made us all unique. There are things that are generally assigned to male and female but still can't apply to all humans because of our specific differences and uniqueness. It can't always be as its expected.
Now,
WHAT MEN NEED TO UNDERSTAND ABOUT US.
1. There are times we just want to talk about things without your opinions or ideas. We just want you to listen and not try to fix or solve things. Women want to be heard, pampered and supported.
2.We appreciate the little things more because it says the most. It signifies that you were thinking about me even if you were busy. A little how are you or how's your day and all won't hurt. We don't always have to have that long a conversation or go out for dinner and all but it's not like we don't love those things though.. smiles! Don't misquote me. What am saying is impressing us doesn't have to go big all the time. Someone once said, the big is in the small and this applies to all things. We are looking for thoughtfulness, kind words, meaningful touch and small acts of service. Love is best communicated in details as quoted by a relationship expert.
3. We can cry when happy, excited, surprised or for no reason at all. Don't take the tears to be a sign of weakness but of strength to actually be able to feel, be compassionate, be real and genuine. Like I said when women cry, we have a reason or none at all so be mindful of this.
4. Women look a whole different when awake than when we went to bed but it's nature. Don't be scared, it's not all that bad especially if your woman is beautiful.
5. Never tell a woman to calm down whenever she's not in her best mood. It would only make things worse. You know the woman you're with best than I so handle her accordingly and with care.
6. We want a give and take relationship. It's in our nature to nurture but truth be told, we want to also be nurtured. We want to give but also need to feel that we're receiving. We want to serve, yet also need to be served. We are not your mother but your partner. We want to take care of our man and we want him to also take good care of us.
7. Women want the good guys than anything else. We want honesty, purity, sincerity and good character for its more important than anything you could offer us.
8. Men need to understand that most times being stubborn and hard headed is the only thing we know how to do best. We can't fight or challenge a man but we can be stubborn which makes us who we are. Be that as it may, a hug would calm us down and not shouting or yelling.
9. Men are considered hotter as they get older. With women, fertility is on a time limit so we are often pressured for marriage. We are born with a finite number of eggs which we end up losing with time as we get older. If a woman pressures her man for commitment or marriage, don't blame her but at the same time women should be careful so you don't end up with the wrong man.
10. We worry about getting pregnant because of unwanted fetus hijacking our womb. Condom and birth controls aren't all that effective. If your woman clamp her legs permanently, she wants to be safe from unwanted pregnancy, STDS or she has a faith movement going on which is abstaining from sex. Don't pressure her if you love her.
11. When you offend her, don't defend yourself. Listen to her and apologize.
12. We like to vent. Just hear us out and feel free to give us a hug. That's all we want.
13. We love it when you call us to tell us how your meeting went, or ask us out again or check up on us after hanging out.
14. Women like straight answers. If you are not that into us, say it. We would rather you not waste our time. If you know the relationship won't leajd anywhwre, say it early enough than after two years.
15. We over analyze things like after a date and the man says "I had a great time". We go into thinking mood: "What did he mean? "Does he like me really? "Or he just wants to sleep with me", "Does he have a girlfriend? "Should I suggest another date? "Will he call? "Should I call? " Did he enjoy himself?
That's just who we are.
16. Lastly, we appreciate chivalry alot like opening the door, pulling out a seat for us, offering your jacket when it's cold and so on.
God made us all unique. There are things that are generally assigned to male and female but still can't apply to all humans because of our specific differences and uniqueness. It can't always be as its expected.
Now,
WHAT MEN NEED TO UNDERSTAND ABOUT US.
1. There are times we just want to talk about things without your opinions or ideas. We just want you to listen and not try to fix or solve things. Women want to be heard, pampered and supported.
2.We appreciate the little things more because it says the most. It signifies that you were thinking about me even if you were busy. A little how are you or how's your day and all won't hurt. We don't always have to have that long a conversation or go out for dinner and all but it's not like we don't love those things though.. smiles! Don't misquote me. What am saying is impressing us doesn't have to go big all the time. Someone once said, the big is in the small and this applies to all things. We are looking for thoughtfulness, kind words, meaningful touch and small acts of service. Love is best communicated in details as quoted by a relationship expert.
3. We can cry when happy, excited, surprised or for no reason at all. Don't take the tears to be a sign of weakness but of strength to actually be able to feel, be compassionate, be real and genuine. Like I said when women cry, we have a reason or none at all so be mindful of this.
4. Women look a whole different when awake than when we went to bed but it's nature. Don't be scared, it's not all that bad especially if your woman is beautiful.
5. Never tell a woman to calm down whenever she's not in her best mood. It would only make things worse. You know the woman you're with best than I so handle her accordingly and with care.
6. We want a give and take relationship. It's in our nature to nurture but truth be told, we want to also be nurtured. We want to give but also need to feel that we're receiving. We want to serve, yet also need to be served. We are not your mother but your partner. We want to take care of our man and we want him to also take good care of us.
7. Women want the good guys than anything else. We want honesty, purity, sincerity and good character for its more important than anything you could offer us.
8. Men need to understand that most times being stubborn and hard headed is the only thing we know how to do best. We can't fight or challenge a man but we can be stubborn which makes us who we are. Be that as it may, a hug would calm us down and not shouting or yelling.
9. Men are considered hotter as they get older. With women, fertility is on a time limit so we are often pressured for marriage. We are born with a finite number of eggs which we end up losing with time as we get older. If a woman pressures her man for commitment or marriage, don't blame her but at the same time women should be careful so you don't end up with the wrong man.
10. We worry about getting pregnant because of unwanted fetus hijacking our womb. Condom and birth controls aren't all that effective. If your woman clamp her legs permanently, she wants to be safe from unwanted pregnancy, STDS or she has a faith movement going on which is abstaining from sex. Don't pressure her if you love her.
11. When you offend her, don't defend yourself. Listen to her and apologize.
12. We like to vent. Just hear us out and feel free to give us a hug. That's all we want.
13. We love it when you call us to tell us how your meeting went, or ask us out again or check up on us after hanging out.
14. Women like straight answers. If you are not that into us, say it. We would rather you not waste our time. If you know the relationship won't leajd anywhwre, say it early enough than after two years.
15. We over analyze things like after a date and the man says "I had a great time". We go into thinking mood: "What did he mean? "Does he like me really? "Or he just wants to sleep with me", "Does he have a girlfriend? "Should I suggest another date? "Will he call? "Should I call? " Did he enjoy himself?
That's just who we are.
16. Lastly, we appreciate chivalry alot like opening the door, pulling out a seat for us, offering your jacket when it's cold and so on.
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