''Sometimes two people have to fall apart to realize how much they need to fall back together'' Rekindling love starts with being curious about your partner. Be willing to let go of what you think you know about each other Every marriage, relationship needs that little push in order to keep the fire burning. There are times you just find your love life becoming boring and your spouse starts feeling off towards things that used to make them feel loved. So many things causes this to happen and the only way to bring back that sparkle in your love life is following this laid down steps 1        Listening to your spouse. Communication plays a vital role in relationships. It makes the other feel important and that you ain't taking them for granted. Look straight into their eyes when your spouse is speaking and trying to make a point. Try to take your mind off distractions and make sure you demonstrate body languages to prove you are attentive. It s

"Do not brood over your past mistakes and failures as this will only fill your mind with   grief, regret and depression. Do not repeat them in the future.      - Swami Sivananda  We all have made some mistakes but moving on seems to be a challenge at times. If we look back at our mistakes, some of it made us what and who we are today. Our past has a way of hunting us and bringing back regretful thoughts but we can overcome it. 1   Forgive yourself.  We all have made several mistakes. Tell me one person who hasn't made a silly big mistake. Its just human! We are not perfect but we can learn from those mistakes and become someone better in the future. Stop thinking too much about that which didn't happen or what happened. There's nothing you can do that would change what had happened in the past but to forgive yourself and pursue peace. Tell yourself everyday if you have to that you are a good person and no one can make you happy if you are not happy with yours

 "A man who treats his woman like a princess is proof that he has been raised by a queen".  Every man should take this very seriously because it determines how a woman would react especially your woman. Women like to be treated in a certain way. We love care, attention and affection! Some men really don't know how to treat ladies but I hope this article helps. MAKE HER FEEL EXCEPTIONAL Every woman wants her birthday to be celebrated or remembered with a surprise. Every man should celebrate anniversaries with their partner because it makes them feel special. Give her gifts and thoughtful ones at that, also celebrate Christmas and Valentine with your partner. Celebrations have a way of telling your woman you take her seriously. Mentioning her to your friends also makes her feel important.     2.  SHOWING RESPECT   Men lack respect at times forgetting its the vital part in relationships. You have to make her feel like her last one was worst so she doesn

     ALL YOU NEED IS LOVE. BUT A LITTLE CHOCOLATE NOW AND THEN DOESN'T HURT.- CHARLES M. SCHULZ We are most alive when we are in love. Valentine's day is a time when people show feelings of love, affection and friendship. It is celebrated all over the world in many ways.  There are so many gift ideas but here are a few below; FOR HIM 1.WATCHES AND JEWELRY 2. BOOKS AND MAGAZINES 3. ATHLETIC APPAREL 4. OFFICE WEARS/ACCESSORIES 5. GADGETS 6. COMPUTERS 7. ELECTRONICS 8. WINE AND SPIRITS 9. PHOTO FRAME 10. MEN APPAREL FOR HER 1. BATH AND BODY 2. ARTS AND CRAFTS 3. INTIMATES 4. JEWELRY 5. HOME DECOR 6. GIFT BASKETS 7.KITCHEN WARE 8. APPAREL 9. BEDDING SETS 10. FLOWER AND PLANTS These gifts are one of a kind! HAPPY VALENTINE LOVELY READERS! please leave a comment and don't forget to share to your loved ones and friends. xoxo

                                                                              A GREAT FIGURE OR PHYSIQUE IS NICE, BUT IT'S SELF CONFIDENCE THAT MAKES SOMEONE REALLY SEXY.- VIVICA A. FOX  THERE CAN BE NO FAILURE TO ONE WHO HAS NOT LOST THEIR COURAGE, THEIR CHARACTER, THEIR SELF RESPECT, OR THEIR SELF-CONFIDENCE. Low self esteem has always been a problem for people especially those lacking confidence. In relationships, one reason for jealousy is lack of self confidence!  Are you that type that looks into your partner's phone every now and then, looking for what would bring your mood down. STOP! That will only make you worry more and bring issues to your relationship.   Here are few ideas that would make you better your confidence: 1. LOOK NEAT. If only you knew how much of a difference a shower can make you feel. Shave when you need to and use deodorants to make your body smell nice. Remember your feet, toes and finger nails to clean them. This is one of the simple